Dating a Married Man? Will he Leave His Wife for you? Do you really want him to?
So you’re dating a married man, are you? He says he’s going to leave his wife, does he? Although I can’t say it never happens – I can say that the chances are pretty slim that he will ever leave his wife for you. If you’re in a relationship with a married man, here are some things to think about:
You’re Probably Wasting Your Time
I know that you’re in love with this man. Why else would you be hanging on to him when you know he’s already married? Sorry – this is going to hurt: He doesn’t love you as much as you love him. If he has been telling you for a year now that he really is going to leave his wife; he’s not going to. If he was really serious, he would have done it already. Get out before you waste any more time.
He’s a Liar
It’s obvious already that he is a liar. He is lying to his wife (and family) on a consistent basis, and chances are he’s lying to you too. He may tell you that his wife is a horrible tyrant that he can’t stand – but if she was that terrible he would have left his wife a long time before you came around don’t you think? And do you really think that he didn’t bring her roses on Valentine’s Day? He probably bought two identical bouquets that morning – one for her and one for you. Be careful how much trust you put in to what this man says. You know he’s comfortable living amidst a garden of lies.
He Cheats on his Wife
So you want him to leave his wife and marry you, is that it? Just remember how seriously he took those sacred vows the first time. I know that not every man who has cheated will cheat again, but you have already seen what this man does when his relationship with his wife gets tough – he came to find you. It would be a wonderful romantic story if his first wife was truly not the one, and you are. He would leave his wife and you would both live happily ever after. However, if he was sure about wanting to trade in his wife for you – sure that you are ‘the one’ instead of her – it shouldn’t be a battle to get him to leave his wife